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I'm Siobhan Curran/Kisa Naumova, and this is my weblog. I tend to write about stuff like crossdressing, Macs, code, cats, wine and Second Life, but in general it's just an ongoing conversation about all sorts of stuff. If you'd like to know a little bit more about what this all is, I recommend starting on this page which has a little bit of info on who I am, and what I'm trying to do — or you could dive into my five years worth of archives if you like.

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Sunday, 14th August, 2005

Anonymity

tagtranny online anonymity

Let's see if I can explain this then :unsure:. It's a tricky issue, and one that (as Jill reminded me yesterday this morning) is quite relevant to the Online-Trannie™ phenomenon.

(I'm quite prepared to stand corrected on this BTW — I have an interest in stuff like this, but not an in-depth interest. Or an authorative one either.)

The first port of call, as always, is Wikipedia...

Internet privacy is privacy over the mediums of the Internet: being able to control what information about oneself is revealed over the Internet, and to whom that information is available. The term is often used to mean universal Internet privacy: every user of the Internet posessing Internet privacy. It is a subset of computer privacy. The concensus among Internet privacy experts is that Internet privacy is not, in general, a reality. Privacy advocates believe that it should be.


81.168.114.66

The main concern regarding Internet privacy, tend to focus around IP Addresses...

Every device on the Internet (including online computers) has an IP address, an identifying number used to route data. This number is assigned by the device's Internet Service Provider (ISP), and may be semi-permanent (for example, assigned for the duration of an account) or temporary (many dial-up connections, for example, are given new IP addresses each time they connect).

What this means, is that if you (like me) have a static IP address, every time you do something online, you leave (for want of a better analogy) an identifiable fingerprint in the logs of a server.

I think there are two issues here. (1) How useful your IP address is to some wannabe hacker, and (2) whether or not there are wannabe hackers who can be bothered to expose us.

On the first point, it's not really that useful. The vast majority of internet users connect through an ISP — and while a bit of jiggery-pokery on the IP address can tell you what ISP they use, it doesn't get you much farther than that (unless, I guess, you're the FBI or something and you can demand that an ISP gives out data about their users).

I know I mentioned traceroute yesterday, but I was being a little melodramatic. OK, so I can use traceroute (which is a pretty bog-standard UNIX app, included on pretty much all systems, and used mainly for troubleshooting network issues) to plot the connections between my computer and yours — but I can't find out stuff like where you live, or what your real name is or anything.

I don't know if you remember that little episode I had a few months ago with the schoolies that threatened to sue me for using the name "Siobhan Curran" :rolleyes: — I managed to find out what school it was that they went to, but not through just using their IP. It took a lot of Googling, and the little eejits had given me their real names :wink:

On the second point though (she said, realising that she's straying somewhat from the plot), I honestly don't believe that being "outed by malicious types" is something to get too worked up about. Despite what you see in the movies, the world isn't filled with leather-clad Black-hats who spend their time either trying to overthrow small governments or going to all-night techno-goth nightclubs.

And the people who do have the ability and authority to find out information about internet users are more likely spending their time trying to round up international terrorists, than creating a "Top trannies and where to find them" list.


Some Suggestions

Before I lose the thread, and actually end up increasing everyone's paranoia, I think I should try and sum that up. Basically, the Internet is not anonymous — but not in a way that should really be of concern to transvestites.

However, having said that, I think there are some fairly sensible precautions you can take to to preserve closetedness...

  1. Don't surf from work
    This isn't about anonymity, it's just basic sense. Becky has a rather nice way of skirting the problem by connecting to her home machine remotely and then surfing through that.

  2. Beware the whois
    whois is another UNIX tool that lets you find out information about a domain name — specifically who owns it. If you have a .uk address, then you're probably OK (but check that your privacy settings as right — I went for about a week with them set to "public" :unsure: before someone pointed it out to me). But if you have a .com or a .org or something like that, then it's worth checking what information Nominet holds about you. (Nominet responds to privacy concerns — 27 August 2002)

  3. Don't feed the trolls
    If, as unlikely as it is, you do actually get picked on by one of those "malicious types", then just ignore them. Engaging one in a flame war only provokes them, and makes it more likely that they'll try and do something nasty.

  4. Be vague
    Even though your IP address can't really tell someone too much about you, what you write can. If preserving anonymity is important, then be careful not to give out any details that could be used to trace you. And I think it goes without saying that you should never post your phone number or address :wink:

  5. Be dynamic
    If I haven't managed to convince you that you shouldn't worry too much about your IP address, then don't get a static one :smile: Most dial-up connections are given a different address each time they connect, but because broadband connections are "always on", it's unlikely your IP address will change that much even if you have a dynamic IP rather than a static one. So disconnect every one in a while :smile:

(Any other suggestions welcomed BTW :smile:)


Relax

I do think though, that t's important not to worry too much about it. As I said, I really don't believe that there's an army of Black-hat teenagers out there whose sole mission is to expose every trannie in the world, and even if there was, they'd need more than just an IP address to do it.

Not wanting to tempt fate or anything, but I've been open about myself online for years — I've even made connections to things that give my real name (and inadvertently my address). And nothing bad has ever happened.

*touch wood*

Aw, Crap

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Aw, Crap

I am my own worst enemy

Ah hence new keyboard from loft. :sad:

It was getting grubby anyway hon. :wink:

When I was firmly in the closet, I developed a deep paranoia about all this (it didn't help that I was working as an evil marketing type for the security division of one of the PC OEMs!) I thought I had everything locked down... A very good firewall, my domain nicely anonymised and, of course, a dynamic IP address. Feeling nicely safe, I browsed away, enjoying all sorts of stuff.

Then, after about a year, I noticed a little surprise from my ISP. Without telling anyone, they started enabling reverse IP lookup, and when they decided to enable it, they did it properly:

firstname-lastname-grenoble-84-41-128-47.nerim.net :blink:

I'm just glad they didn't put my credit card details in there as well! :lol:

But don't bother checking your logs, Siobhan... That was long before I became addicted to your little corner of the net! :tongue:

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Emily Söderberg

Re the keyboard... Pop the keys off and stick it in the dishwasher (but choose a delicate, non-drying programme if you don't want your dishwasher's impressionistic sculpture of a keyboard!) Have been doing that to my Apple keyboards for ages. Still can't type to save my life, but it smells much better!

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Emily Söderberg

I'm more worried about having my banking or other info being stolen than somebody finding out that I'm trans. Another layer between you and the outside world is to use a router. Even if you only have one computer on your home network. Let broadband connect to the router, then the router connects with you, without letting the outside world know that you and your computer are even connected to it. So you wouldn't need to worry about that last "Be Dynamic" one. Like I said though, there's a lot of other ID stuff I'm worried about being stolen, than just being tran. Then again, if I was worried about people in the general public finding out that I'm tran, I probably wouldn't wear eye makeup and pigtails to work...and i do that, so i guess i'm not worried! :smile:

...and that keyboard. It looks awfully familiar. I did that to mine last week, only with coca-cola. Popped off the keys, put them in a bowl with warm water and liquid soap, and shook the hell out of it. The actual keyboard though, if you haven't cleaned it in a while, or ever, then it needed it anyway!

LOL, I must just point out that this isn't the first time I've come close to destroying a keyboard by spilling wine on it. The one I'm using right now is the one that came with Erin — back in 2001 — and it's been through the warm-water-in-sink process at least 5 times.

You're all right though — that white one needed a wash anyway. :wink:

Scary House

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Scary House

Every city has it's weird houses. The guy who used to live here painted all of his windows, leaving a small square patch for him to stare out of. Which he did. All of the time.

I saw him staring at me once — it put the willies up me

Don't drink and drive

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Don't drink and drive

Smoke pot and fly

The Alms Houses

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The Alms Houses

1702 I think they were built

Swirly Rock

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Swirly Rock

The whole city is made of this stuff

Bindweed

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Bindweed

I just thought it was really cool how it had reached up and grabbed the tree

Bah... bloody bindweed. Some idiot thought it would be good to grow on the fence between my house and my neighbours... bloody stuff is a nightmare to keep under control....

Oh. I love the stuff :smile: In fact, I've just planted some in one of the little planters that I made in the yard.

In planters it should be OK if you keep it trimmed. I like bindweed too.

I've killed a couple of keyboards with wine as well, now I've always got a backup one.

... timing! :biggrin:

I've been waiting days for that

Had a gerden of bindweed once upon a time, but it all end happily ever after — sold the house.

I'll rephrase that... Had a garden of bindweed once upon a time, but it all ended happily ever after — sold the house.

I dunno Rachel — I spend days writing a script that spell-checks comments, and you don't use it :wink:

lol at spilling wine in your keyboard, I did the same a while ago but was rum and coke (after quite a few I might add ) Didnt know you could wash a keyboard, dam I just binned mine and bought a new one next day. So much for having a comp tech as a partner!!!!

Interesting about the bindweed, thats called convolvulus here in NZ and its a noxious weed, and a dam nuisance in the garden I might add so make sure you keep it contained.

"I dunno Rachel — I spend days writing a script that spell-checks comments, and you don't use it"

Siobhan, that's because I HATE spell-checkers — it's like someone saying to me a can't spell — sometimes I can't, but I'll look in a dictionary before I'll use a spell-checker. To me, spell-checkers are for people who are too lazy to learn to spell. Anyway, half the time spell-checkers can't spell, unless one is american, of course.

My advice: Bin the spell-checker! :smile:

Googling 'almshouses lancaster' says they were built in 1720. But that info's only as good as the source. :wink:

If you're taking votes, 'fraid I don't like the spellchecker, either.

As a dyslexic I love spell checkers but only if they suggest alternatives, I usually get there in the end with their help. So I'm voting to keep it, no upgrade it.

Siobahn,

thanks for writing so much about anonymity. Its a real issue for so many of us. sorry to be brief. I had to post something.

Love Jill

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An anonymous coward

Siobhan, you'd better keep the spellchecker after all you know better than to disobey a real woman! Apologies Jane, hadn't thought of our dyslexic friends! :smile:

RE: Privacy while surfing -

You might be interested in this — It was first developed by the

US military but has now gone open source via EFF.

http://www.macupdate.com/info.php/id/17679

Not used it myself — have dynamic IP. So milage may vary.

Supposed to be good though !

Cheers , Love the blog !

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Peetr

Re : Privacy etc etc etc

Not wanting to jump on the bandwagon too much here, but hopefully I can clear some things up :smile:

You cannot "hide" your IP as such. Technically, you can spoof another IP address and there is lots of jiggery-pokery that you can do with messing around with packet headers and such which will confuse anything on the other end.

However, the end result is, if you arrange matters so that your IP is changed somehow, you don't get ANY information back from where you are trying to connect to :smile: Your IP addy is there for a reason ... so services can send you information.

It is like calling someone on the phone, and because you are pretending to be on a different number, whenever they speak it goes to that other number. They can hear you fine, but you won't get any conversation back.

The only way around this is a proxy service. This means you connect to someone else, who makes the request for you. It comes back to them and they forward it onto you. However, the proxy service will still be able to tell what you are doing, so it isn't completely anonymous. :smile:

This is exactly what the "Tor" utility Peetr mentioned does, allthough in a very roundabout way. They even seem to recommend you install their server, so other people can bounce connections through you! I would rather take responsibility for my own surfing habits than someone elses.

Siobhan has it dead right when she says "Stop worrying about it".

There very definately are not gangs of people hunting down T-Girls on the net, so relax and just get on with it :smile:

As long as you don't actually give people personal information, you should be free from stalkers for a while :smile:

AK