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Friday, 24th August, 2007

Tyred And Useless

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Gah. What is wrong with me that I can't seem to convey to other people what it is that I actually want, and always end up getting midly stressed and feeling disappointed?

At the risk of inducing a ton of "Oh, FFS Curran" feedback, I have to confess that I've been driving around for the past month on the spare trye of my car. Ever since I whacked an enormous pothole on the way home from work one night, I've had the inconvenience of a pissy 'space-saver' tyre, and the inevitable clunky drive that they bring.

I know I should have sorted it out earlier, I just couldn't afford it is all.

Today though, a rather unexpected (well, unexpected about a week ago) windfall has landed in my bank, and so I booked Ffr in to have a complete set of new tyres.

Excessive, perhaps, but to be totally frank, I seem to keep having to inflate the other three every week or so — I'm convinced they've all got slow punctures.

I was quite excited, actually, driving over to the tyre place earlier on this morning. When I got there I could see the four brand spanking new Michelins sitting out, and I expected to have about an hour's worth of thumb-twiddling time while they brought my car back up to scratch, and potentially had a look at the shock absorbers as well.

"Just leave the flat with us", said the guy, tutting at the big dent in the rim (that I hadn't spotted before), "and if you give us a call in an hour, I'll tell you if we can fix it, or if you'll need a new one."

Which is very noble of him, of course — offering to fix a puncture for a fraction of the cost of a replacement.

But.

That's not what I want. I want them to replace all four tyres, regardless of whether they can be fixed or not. Like I said, it might seem excessive, but if I don't do it now — when I can afford it — they'll probably give up the ghost when I can't afford it, and I'll be screwed.

The Empowered Consumer Of The Twenty First Century™ would, no doubt, have said something like "Thanks, but actually what I'd rather you do is...". I, being a complete useless cretin in any situation which involves dealing with other people said "OK", and scuttled back to the house in a furious mood with myself.

I really hate that aspect of my personality. I dunno where it comes from, but I seem to totally fall to pieces whenever something like that happens. Instead of explaining (and asserting) what I want to happen, I just let people walk all over me — even when they're trying to be nice and helpful.

...

Anyway. Whatever. On the way home I bought some Frontline. The kittens are not going to be happy with me...

You wanna get that wing mirror fixed up proper too. :wink:

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rachel

Is their a connection between your frustration and the decision to Frontline the kittens today? ;o)

Arg! Excuse the typo in the last one — verrry frustrating day here and no kittens to take it out on.

Currantly

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Currantly

Oh man, I could get used to this

That reminds me: I must remember to order more Frontline.

Thanks!

How did the tire thing work out?

I'm going to have get new tires on my favorite motorciccle sometime soon. The rear tire has a life expectancy of about 3,000 miles, and the front is about 3,500. Considering that I do about 40,000 a year... (About 20 to 25k on 2 wheels.)

(The rear tire. Oy! The last time I got it changed it cost me close on $400!)

Carolyn Ann

I've got a few spare tyres you can have! Rolls.

Oops sorry, wrong kind!. <img

How did the tire thing work out?

Tyre! The word is tyre! :wink:

It kinda worked out well. I surprised myself by repeating the words "I want four new tyres" over and over again on the phone, and then spent three hours wandering along the Lune as they put them on for me.

Except their depot had sent one that wasn't the right size, and I have to take the car in this morning to get the last one.

Which is tricky, seeing as I'm hideously hungover.

I never tire of the differences in spelins. :smile:

Sorry, couldn't resist.

Carolyn Ann